Sunday, September 16, 2018

Is morality objective?

So, it’s been a long time since I wrote. Let me start by saying - I love living in Seattle.  Caveat: I moved here this summer, and the summer is just coming to an end.

That being said, I’ve been going to some philosophical discussions. And at the moment, on my mind is the discussion I horribly seemed to have lost an argument in or lost the room in. Now, I’m probably about the lose my large internet audience as well.

When asked, “is morality objective?” one must probably automatically answer: no, morality is subjective. I thought about it a bit, and I went with “Yes, I think it could be objective…”

To be honest, I surprised myself with my answer. And luckily for me, I absolutely love that. When we check with ourselves, and ask ourselves a question again, in current time, and consciously really think about it anew and afresh, do we surprise ourselves with a new answer and a new thought? I did.

So, here’s what I argued. There could be an underlying “objective” morality function of several inputs, which is perhaps too difficult for us to compute at any given time. Perhaps there are 10 key aspects/inputs, or perhaps there are infinite. If we were to enter values for all of these key inputs of any given situation, perhaps we could do the calculation and get a decently “objective” answer (currently defining “objective answer" to mean one that most/all people in the world would at the deepest levels agree with) for how moral a certain act or behavior is or which would be the most moral course of action. I argued that there are perhaps too many factors, and we are not able to make the calculation, so we go with some bounded rationality version, and put down an answer after we get tired of thinking a sufficient amount. This leads to subjective answers, based on people’s levels of effort of thinking. Thus, in this regard, morality APPEARS subjective. And perhaps for all practical and functional purpose, it will indeed remain subjective.

Someone in the room argued, “morality is subjective…” because when you give people a situation, and ask them what they'd do in situation X or Y, answers are likely to be quite different, and this shows that morality is subjective. I surprisingly argued that perhaps some of those people are not moral. That is, their own level of morality (on some underlying objective morality scale, assuming it exists) impacts what they would do in a given situation. (people might also vary in their efforts of thinking/computation of the morality function) At the very least, I was not convinced that people’s opinions on morality can be taken as a way of saying there is no true morality in the world to be discovered.

Someone else reminded us all about an experiment where infants who were shown various scenarios knew to side with a victim whereas adults in the same experiment didn’t. I thought this point added fuel to my argument, and clearly, people must now stop and reconsider that morality could be objective if we were given it at birth. Someone argued back saying, “well, we evolve.. and are corrupted, and the right or wrong we experienced as kids is not something that stays with us..” basically implying that a child’s view of morality is not applicable to this current adult conversation. Lol, and I thought to myself, this guy is corrupt.

Just kidding, he seemed quite nice and was raising very interesting other points (hehe, note that “other” is my way of admitting that I was not intrigued by this point he made, but mostly jk again). So, I would say there is some possibility that if children know what’s moral or not, we shouldn’t ignore this point. We should think about whether there exists something we have forgotten over time or do not care to practice or to think about because we are too busy with other things. Perhaps we have accepted and endorsed moral subjectivity as a way of alleviating feeling immoral.

I guess we should distinguish between "morality is objective/objectively exists" vs. "where do we stand on that scale." If we continuously rank low on a morality scale, and other adults continuously rank low on that morality scale, we just start to say there is no such scale? We say don’t look for it, it’s a futile scale? We say it requires too many things to think about, so we’ll never try come up with maybe 10 or 20 or 50 rules/concepts in life that matter most to all of us and that we could all potentially agree upon? It’s too much to calculate, let’s not bother. Let’s just accept that morality is for sure subjective. [I got called "an objectivist" by the end of the night, lol and maybe I deserved it, but I was also the only one fighting for the subjectivity of this question being discussed]

Well, there’s a lot of talk about “accountability” and “measurement” when it comes to people’s gym goals. Counting calories, keeping track of your progress on weight lifting, on cardio, etc. There are days you're hitting all your gym goals, and other days you're not. But many people agree that having that scale helps us perform better.

I would say it’s hard for us to accept that every day, we are immoral. And that we don’t meet the morality metrics that we maybe intrinsically know do exist. This hurts our self-concept.

[Further, I worry what would happen if we don't have a scale in this case -- wouldn't we underperform?]

I’m not sure what to say about a metric we are more often than not bound to fail on. I’m not sure I would say this scale doesn’t exist, I’m not sure I’d say there isn’t an underlying consensus across religions, cultures, and philosophies about what is moral. I know we have not been able to get at/find this objective/universal morality/truth/fundamental set of moral rules that we all agree on ever before if it does exist, but I’m not one to say what we have not achieved in the past, we will continue not to achieve (though perhaps I should say that (?) lol), and that we should not even bother try and deny the possibility of its existence. I would still say as I believe I have always said, we should dig further into the consensus or consensuses that do exist out there regarding morality.

I like Seattle : )






Saturday, October 14, 2017

Meditation

You can pick out the meditators from the crowd. That's how you know it works. Now, being a meditating economist would be a golden thing to accomplish imo.

Wednesday, June 01, 2016

How free are we?

We sometimes don't realize how free we are. We are not only free from what others think of us, or what others are saying to us, but we are even free from our own thoughts. We are free from the noise within. In every moment, we can look at our thoughts -- look at all of them-- and choose to act on the ones that make us happy -- or the ones that don't. This is also why Happiness is a choice. Inner freedom from our own thoughts is itself is a choice. How do we make this choice? On what basis? Intuition? Maybe...~

Tuesday, April 05, 2016

Shadow Meditation and Changing Immigrant Identity

I thought about this blog post some weeks ago, so I am not sure how much justice I'll do to it, given that I might have lost some excitement for it and may not remember why I thought it was so important to write out. But here goes: Shadow meditation is something I have recently learned in meditation, and I've grown to really like it; I love the concept, the idea, and I am loving the realizations from it. The basic idea is that there were some parts of our being and our existence that were shunned by society or criticized by someone in the past, and we chose to hide these parts of our being, i.e., we hid them in the "shadow". And over time, these shadow aspects of ourselves are asking to be seen and heard, and brought to the surface or to our conscious awareness. So, the idea is that these shadow aspects attract situations that force us to see and own/re-integrate these parts of ourselves that we have hidden. This idea rests on the notion that once there is a part of us that has been opened, it exists, and while we may hide it, it never really/fully goes away. The short-lived cardboard cupholders at Starbucks had quoted Oprah,"...seek to be whole.."; this idea of seeking to be whole rather than perfect is part of many "new age" spiritual teachings (as I like to call them).

Now, how does this tie into changing immigrant identity, you ask? Well, I've had the opportunity to experience a changing immigrant identity. And while at many times, I struggle with how lonely this path can be, I realize that my struggle is all the more worth talking about so that it may provide comfort and solace to anyone out there who might think they are alone in this. When I moved to the U.S. at 11 years of age, I was obviously 100% Indian. I had no idea that this point was ever going to be debatable. When people would hear my accent at age 13 and called me American-born, I'd be quite offended, because I was so proud of being Indian! At that time, I was also more resistant to changing and assimilating with the American culture. Well, over time, I think it is pretty inevitable that you do change with culture, even if you try and resist. And sometimes, you have to recognize and lose parts of your Indian (or other nationality) personality for the assimilation. I finally began accepting that I am more American than I knew, and in ways that are not even readily communicable.

Well, after being well assimilated or more assimilated into American culture, you run into people who are immigrating from India (or your home country). And they do things that possibly annoy you -- things you understand, because you used to be that way -- but have put aside, bc you are now assimilating with American culture. How many of you assimilators have experienced this? Is the annoyance happening because there is something within us that we are reluctant to accept? Something we know and understand extremely well bc we have been that way ourselves? Can we recover and re-integrate these parts of ourselves? How? How can we remain a previous nationality and a new one at the same time? What would that look like? Do we have any models of how to do this?

And this is where Shadow Meditation comes in. I guess I have been 100% Indian, and living in the U.S. for so long made me think that I am now less Indian and more American; yet the truth is, all of those Indian things are still within me! 100% so. They just don't have a chance to manifest or need to manifest, and so they've been hidden? Some of those things I consciously chose to put away, and some things just happened to go into the shadow.

Yet, this type of hiding in the shadow must be happening to all assimilators! and many immigrants!!

We have a whole national personality under shadows, perhaps? Can we really be as whole as we want to be without fully being BOTH nationalities? It's a gift and a curse, huh? Probably, mostly a gift. I am still working with it, and trying to understand it for myself. So, I do not yet have solutions; what I do have is a greater understanding of the question and some tools and perspectives for tackling it.

#whoamireally

Monday, December 14, 2015

The Simple Secret to Happiness

Here's a little thought about happiness: when we have interactions with people that make us happy, when we choose to be happy, when we make choices that make us happy, we get to know what MAKES us happy. When we FEEL happy, we understand what happiness FEELS like. Then, we WANT to create more of it. And if we were somewhat conscious about what it was TRULY that made us happy in that moment, then we get closer and closer to the CAUSE of happiness. The closer we get to the cause of happiness, the more we can create happiness intentionally in all that we choose to do. One happy moment creation at a time, we teach other and inspire each other into more happiness creation. #masterhappinesscreators #getexperiencedinbeinghappy #collectobservationsonwhatmakesyouhappy #thengoresearcheronallthatdata

Thursday, November 19, 2015

So many ways to go

If we are to happily walk together for eternity, it would be ideal for both of us to self-select our way onto the same path, I guess. 

Thursday, November 12, 2015

What if there were only 4 people...

I know there might already be a movie about this. Or perhaps someone will copy this post some day. Or there are others that have wondered this.

What if...

What if...there were 4 people in the world...?

4 people... who had so much love inside them... so much so that they couldn't help but love..

It was a bit too much love at first...

And just like any superhero needs to learn how to channel and wield his/her powers, so did these 4 people..

Then what did they do? They created love.

Truly. Wherever they went.

Simply.

By being.

And as long as they believed - the world ran.

People knew love because they met these 4 people -- then passed it along -- till all people slowly understood and had these essences of love.

Could people other than these 4 people power the world?

These 4 people certainly hoped so.

Would love spread? grow? Would it live in others?

Have these 4 people built something forever?

That part of them they shared, does it live on? Can it be destroyed?

Sure, maybe it is not understood by everyone -- but does it ever really go away?

It is built, it is there.

What happens if one of the 4 has a catastrophic tragedy -- what happens to everyone else?

Do they feel that rippling pain in their hearts too?

Perhaps..!

Each moment of love creation, love exchange, true kindness, true love, does it stand as Truth?

Does it torment the non-believer, the non-receiver, the logical know-it-all?

Will love necessarily penetrate such a soul?

Or is that not the way love works?

Love supports and surrounds and cushions - is that right?

Could it possibly ask for recognition? Could it ever hold itself back?

No, of course not : )

Perhaps it only takes very few hearts to power and empower this whole world ---

Wouldn't this speak volumes about the magnitude of this thing or non-thing we call < - 3