Friday, August 10, 2012

Krish and Krit

Krishna,

Sometimes I don’t know if you are really there, or are just an extension of the pretend games I used to play earlier as a child. I know that as a child I made an alternate world, which helped me have friends when there were none, which helped me go on enjoying my childhood. I used to love you when I was a little kid. You were my favorite god. If you exist, you already know this, but from what I understand, even you enjoy hearing your praise and being liked.

Even if you are just a figment of my imagination, you are such a fun one! Whenever I am talking to you in my heart, I smile. In the darkest and lowest of moments, you are that (perhaps imaginary) friend, who always always has a great sense of humor. So, if it is not you, is it my own humor? When I think it is you, I even bring out the best qualities of myself in my imagination. I think about what you would want – what would Krishna do, what would Jesus do – and this very question helps me to explore what I would want God to do. This is how I get in touch with the innermost God in me, and maybe that IS you.

So, on days when I think you are not there, I feel alone and heavy. I feel as though I have had it all wrong the whole time. I feel like a fool – like I am still that child playing on swings, imagining a world, and talking to myself. And I want to break it all – I want to step out of it, and become a skeptic. Even in all my skepticism about you throughout the years, I never left you, and you never left me. Even if I did not call you by your name, you knew I believed in you. Do you like being called by your name? People seem to fight over it, so I refrained from finding out your name. I think of your nature. I am willing to argue and debate at length about what God’s attributes are supposed to be like – but how much do you care about your name? Sometimes in relationships, we forget to ask each other these seemingly unimportant questions, and so I ask you.

Unfortunately, the more I tap into you, the more addicting you become, and our relationship becomes deeper. When the world says this and that, I try to remember the things you and I have agreed on – without being too affected by others. Yet, it is so difficult to be in your nonverbal relationship – you know I am terrible at those. I like explicitness – so I am being explicit with you. I agree you have shown some extremely explicit signs lately to make us stronger. I appreciate those. I am appreciating you explicitly, because this is how I want you to treat me as well. I am not scared of you. I love you, and I want to be honest with you. If I was scared, I would disguise and lie. With love, I have courage. With you, I have courage. 

I do feel discouraged in the face of a world that does not believe in the nature of God in the way I believe. What if I am listening incorrectly? What if I am wrong? We all have these questions. I am not good at praying. Help me pray, help me listen, help me know you. Is knowing you important? Or is making money, getting married, and living a smart life more important? Knowing you is knowing me – that is what I want to do – that is what I love doing. I love you, I love me, and I am really growing to love us. Is that okay? Can I love who I think you are and can I love who I am even if the world does not really approve of my ways? 

Be explicit, don’t insult my intelligence. You know that I can always argue the logical case in which you do not matter or exist at all. You are kind of a jerk for allowing that – you made logic so logical, and then did not allow us to prove you through it – who does that!!! I do appreciate the sense of humor.

Much love,
Kritee

P.S. Thanks for sharing your birthday with mine this year. Daadi would sing the song, aana sundar shyaam humaare kirtan mein – thanks for coming to my party =D and thanks for inviting me to yours!

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