Ambition, noun
1. strong desire for success, achievement, or distinction
2. something so desired; goal; aim
While the definition of ambition seems simple and harmless, what if we could reevaluate how ambition is practiced?
An ambitious person may merely be seeking to compare, rather than to
compete. The tendency to compare and gauge for a benchmark of what is the
correct norm or, a benchmark level, or a critical level, in order to track one’s own progress
can be beneficial for an ambitious person, but the choice of which benchmark to
use is often the most crucial one. As in any social research, the comparisons
must be made among like terms. The person most certainly similar to yourself on
a micro level is YOU. Yes, the time effect varies, that is, person A at age 10
does not know what person A would have done at age 10 because he has no
experience being that age. So, with that respect person A cannot benefit from using
person A at age 5 as a benchmark.
For this, and other small references, a person may look outward for
guidance, but I believe that not knowing where you stand among others, and not
placing yourself on any scale with others allows us to be more humble, to avoid
jealousy, and to always work hard and harder (for like the hare, we do not know
that we are “ahead” because we are not even on the same scale). As a society,
we may be happier in being the best selves we can possibly be, without feeling
despair at being “behind” and without feeling arrogant for being “ahead”, while
still using an introspective form of ambition, making sure that our progress is
correlated strongly with our own age, hoping that that will be enough for the
world. After all, the wings are but the mechanism with which to fly a peaceful journey.
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